Amela Sandra... I grew up with selective mutism in childhood; watched 3boys wrestle and exclude me from "boys games." Growing up near a botanical garden, immersing myself in nature. No reason to become mentally ill. The term Feminist, was not very lady-like according to strict cultural norms. Psychology centered my adulthood as I began to do Community Wellness Outreach and Advocacy for women. Here I'd like to be genuine with my readers on resilience in overcoming obstacles, post by post.